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KevinF
09-25-2008, 03:17 PM
I'm not being schovanistic - if wives want to unlease on their husbands go ahead.

My wife is hateful. I can do nothing right, she can do nothing wrong. She always says I never want to do anything with her, but everytime I ask, she says she's busy. Last Saturday she was going to be home in time to help me get ready to go to CLR because my head hurt worse than usual. She said she'd be with her neices until around 3pm and then be home. She didn't come home until after 7. Then Sunday she threw a fit and knocked all my papers off my table and desk. I slipped on the papers and fell on the footboard of the bed which broke a rib. Then she hid the TV remote from me this morning and refused to tell me where it was. You that have had broken ribs know that they make it painful to get up and down and move around. I want a divorce, but with my constant headaches it would be hard to live alone without any help.

BEAR
09-25-2008, 03:24 PM
I'm not being schovanistic - if wives want to unlease on their husbands go ahead.

My wife is hateful. I can do nothing right, she can do nothing wrong. She always says I never want to do anything with her, but everytime I ask, she says she's busy. Last Saturday she was going to be home in time to help me get ready to go to CLR because my head hurt worse than usual. She said she'd be with her neices until around 3pm and then be home. She didn't come home until after 7. Then Sunday she threw a fit and knocked all my papers off my table and desk. I slipped on the papers and fell on the footboard of the bed which broke a rib. Then she hid the TV remote from me this morning and refused to tell me where it was. You that have had broken ribs know that they make it painful to get up and down and move around. I want a divorce, but with my constant headaches it would be hard to live alone without any help.
dat ****s crazy kevin sounds like shes lost it damn maybe she needs theraphy

racefan29nc
09-25-2008, 04:08 PM
Poor Kevin, that is horrible!!! No wonder you have headaches!!!

rb
09-25-2008, 04:43 PM
Way too much information. :smile:
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Red Dust
09-25-2008, 04:49 PM
I love my wife:love06::love06::love06::love06:

BEAR
09-25-2008, 04:51 PM
I love my wife:love06::love06::love06::love06:
lol redust i love mine 2 but shes a lil crazy sumtimes 2 lol :prayer1: she dont see this

crewmembers461
09-25-2008, 04:55 PM
we the last time i unleased my wife the divorce part was ok but then she costed me 500.00 because of what was her fault and then took out papers on me again 3 months later for full custody that costed me 1,500

Racerchaser
09-25-2008, 05:12 PM
I'm not being schovanistic - if wives want to unlease on their husbands go ahead.

My wife is hateful. I can do nothing right, she can do nothing wrong. She always says I never want to do anything with her, but everytime I ask, she says she's busy. Last Saturday she was going to be home in time to help me get ready to go to CLR because my head hurt worse than usual. She said she'd be with her neices until around 3pm and then be home. She didn't come home until after 7. Then Sunday she threw a fit and knocked all my papers off my table and desk. I slipped on the papers and fell on the footboard of the bed which broke a rib. Then she hid the TV remote from me this morning and refused to tell me where it was. You that have had broken ribs know that they make it painful to get up and down and move around. I want a divorce, but with my constant headaches it would be hard to live alone without any help.

IF YOU WANT A DIVORCE THERE'S ONLY 2 THINGS STOPPING YOU,
1 THE FEAR OF SLEEPING ALONE,OR
2 THE FEAR OF BEING HAPPY..............
OUTSIDE OF THAT SIGN THE PAPERS.................

There would a new face around this Delaware address. Damn living by yourself can't be as bad as living the way you are.................WIN,LOOSE OR DRAW.
That's no way to live for either one of you. Both of you are miserable and some one going to get hurt real bad and real soon...........

HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT THAT SHE JUST MIGHT BE THE REASON FOR ALL YOUR HEADACHES

purplerose22603
09-25-2008, 06:26 PM
No one likes divorce but when it comes to safety for either party. It may become necessary to separate. If you don't have any children, in the state of VA, you can divorce without a lengthy separation.

crewmembers461
09-25-2008, 06:27 PM
moving to va then

purplerose22603
09-25-2008, 06:30 PM
moving to va then

I thought that Kevin lived in VA.

VaDirt
09-25-2008, 06:37 PM
All I can say is that I have one great wife. She don't like racing, but I have free reign to go to races, and a free, never ending "kitchen pass" if I feel like going out after work.

Cutie
09-25-2008, 07:21 PM
Kevin,

I would say get a divorce because you are not happy and obviously she isn't. So it doesn't make for a really good situation. It sounds like you are in a lose/lose situation. I admit, I can be a total witch sometimes, but we have never really went through with separating or anything. Either go to counseling or go your separate ways, because they are right, someone (you) is going to likely end up getting hurt.

Hope this helps!

Kim

JRhodes
09-25-2008, 07:53 PM
Prolonging the matter will only hurt you even more. I should have never stayed with my ex-fiance as long as I did. I was mentally screwed up after her. She made it that way and enjoyed every minute of it.

Now I must say that my wife is nothing but excellent. She loves racing just about as much as I do, and we have tons in common. She's the part that completes me.

Redclay Rebel
09-25-2008, 08:15 PM
I love my wife, but ask me again when she is awake....lol:18lol::01Happy:

barbecueboy
09-25-2008, 09:44 PM
Dang kevin---to steal a line from my favorite monty python movie.......RUN AWAAAAAAAYYYY

good luck with that-----im sure some of your friends would help you out if you were on your own-----do you and your wife a favor and YOU make the first move,get the ball rolling,criminal domestic violence doesnt always involve hitting or stricking,have you ever called the law for any of your quarrels?There are also support groups everywhere for everything...

Bubba0369
09-26-2008, 09:18 AM
I thought that Kevin lived in VA.
He does I think crew was asking if he could move in when kevin signed the papers LOL

Bubba0369
09-26-2008, 09:27 AM
I'm not being schovanistic - if wives want to unlease on their husbands go ahead.

My wife is hateful. I can do nothing right, she can do nothing wrong. She always says I never want to do anything with her, but everytime I ask, she says she's busy. Last Saturday she was going to be home in time to help me get ready to go to CLR because my head hurt worse than usual. She said she'd be with her neices until around 3pm and then be home. She didn't come home until after 7. Then Sunday she threw a fit and knocked all my papers off my table and desk. I slipped on the papers and fell on the footboard of the bed which broke a rib. Then she hid the TV remote from me this morning and refused to tell me where it was. You that have had broken ribs know that they make it painful to get up and down and move around. I want a divorce, but with my constant headaches it would be hard to live alone without any help.With her neices Ha she was with Jody he was waxing that azz.
The remote thing for gods sake man up and don't be lazy.Divorce it would be easier to just drive off a bridge or something (we do not condone that here at LRC it is just a statement by this member and this member alone) or there is always....:hanged:or:ak47:LoL just kidding! I kid I kid I make a little joke!!! (and just for the record I Love my wife also)

crewmembers461
09-26-2008, 09:39 AM
no i was talking about i should have moved to va and got a divorce alot sooner than 1 year

Wilder4Racin
09-26-2008, 11:00 AM
Kevin, I would hope that you realize that you are not happy and can make some kinda change. I am not sure divorce is the answer, but maybe some communication and find the root of the problem and try to make some changes. A person shouldnt be unhappy and/or live the way that you have stated in your post. I wish you luck and hopefully something positive will come out of this!

Cutie
09-26-2008, 12:19 PM
I love my wife, but ask me again when she is awake....lol:18lol::01Happy:

OK Now that was just WRONG lmao

shotgun
09-26-2008, 02:21 PM
I hate to hear this about your wife, not sure what to tell you there Kevin, my best advice would be is do what you think is best.

ghaw55crewchief
09-26-2008, 06:31 PM
I hate to hear this about your wife, not sure what to tell you there Kevin, my best advice would be is do what you think is best.For once Shotgun has actually made since in a post LOL no one can tell you what to do Kevin you have to make the call on your own. I love my wife she is a great women and supports me in almost every thing I do. :wow_NBS:Hate to hear all of this Kevin Good luck and I wish you and your wife the best.

Southernbelle
09-27-2008, 02:16 PM
:EmbarassGirl:Think about it when your head is not hurting and she has not made you upset. weigh the good against the bad see which comes out the best. love and hate are a thin line between them. I love my husband also and hope you guys can find the love that brought you together. Best of luck. go out on a romantic date and see how that works.

capefear01
09-29-2008, 08:47 PM
Poor Kevin, that is horrible!!! No wonder you have headaches!!!


Whoa dude! I think your right.

LOU_01
09-29-2008, 09:08 PM
its great to be single:18lol:

wesleycogdell
09-29-2008, 09:12 PM
yes yes it is lou